Question #5 is this "is there anyway i can do that on myself, i tried, its hard"
This hair style is much easier when someone else can do the braid. However it is possible. I have to make sure my hair is wet when I start. Then I take a pillow and lay it on a counter to place my head on. The hardest part is controlling the hair because it wants to lay over where you are working. This is the reason for placing my head on the pillow. You want as much hair out of your way as possible. I hope this helps you will also want to practice a couple of times. I think it took me several tries the first time to get it right.